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Adulting and Friendship: I'm Sick of "Perfect"...
I now realize how strong my perfectionist tendencies are. Friends who know me well have seen it all along, I'm sure (and are probably...
Dec 9, 2021


Adulting: Not My Best Moments...
A recently experienced a very ugly side of myself. And unfortunately, some close friends saw it too. I won’t go into detail, but I do...
Oct 14, 2021


Adulting: Reaching Out to Play...
I have an Auntie I don’t see very often, but I love her and she has a corner in my heart. It’s all because she hid behind a department...
Oct 1, 2021


Adulting: I Learn From Birds...
I’m slightly obsessed with feeding the birds. I will always be a cat mama in my heart. But since my kitty passed away, I’ve found such...
Sep 17, 2021


Adulting: Who's in Front of You?
I was driving down a long British road the other day, and a big truck was in front of me. The driver was going at a leisurely pace under...
Jul 9, 2021


Adulting: Placing a Crown on Others...
I remember my English teacher in high school talking about this phrase: I’m going to crown you. Intrigued, I asked her what it meant....
Jun 11, 2021


Adulting: When Someone Decides to "Correct" You...
I find it fascinating when people correct my grammar – especially in response to what I say verbally. I remember someone asking me
Jan 13, 2021


Adulting: The Compliment That Is STILL in My Heart...
When little, I wrung out a soppy washcloth in front of my grandma. She looked at me and said with a smile, “Good for you! You did it...
Oct 28, 2020


Adulting: Do You Celebrate Birthday Eves?
I’ve written a few blog posts about taking time to celebrate. I can’t stress enough that I feel we should do more of it. Here’s one thing...
Oct 22, 2020


Adulting and Grieving Grandma...
When I was living in Turkey, I would have custom clothing made. In the city of Ankara, you can visit giant fabric markets and select a...
Sep 30, 2020


Adulting: Assumptions and COVID...
Years ago, I read an autobiography written by a woman who grew up in a cult. It was eye-opening to say the least, but she shared a...
Sep 22, 2020


Adulting and Learning the Hard Way....
Now I understand why people older than me would often say, “I guess they will have to learn the hard way.” That phrase used to really...
Sep 15, 2020


Do People Like the Gifts You Give?
I come from a tribe of people who love crispy bacon. (I think we just love breakfast food in general, like Ron Swanson on Parks and...
Sep 11, 2020


Adulting: How We Perceive Ourselves...
My husband cracked me up with a meme the other day that essentially said (paraphrased): Having kids makes you realize how stupid your...
Aug 5, 2020


Adulting: Another Side to Crying...
I love that adulting is often about exposing ourselves to new viewpoints, which can in turn bring healing. When I was a little girl, I...
Jul 16, 2020


Adulting: 3 Reminders for Dealing with Rude People...
I know I’m not the only one who gets frustrated by rude behavior* that can confront us on a daily basis: getting cut off by another...
Jul 8, 2020


Adulting and Being Judgy...
I was the youngest in my family. On top of that, I didn’t grow up around many young children. I didn’t baby-sit much, and if I did, the...
Jun 30, 2020


Adulting: My Secret Mom Pact...
When I was little, my Mom told me that if anyone asked me to keep a secret, it never excluded my Mom. I could always tell her. It was our...
Jun 3, 2020


Adulting: I Want to Be Like Mimi...
I really enjoy sending old-fashioned snail mail. I mean, let me be honest with you: I even just love the phrase “snail mail”. Recently, a...
May 21, 2020


Adulting and Letting a Friend Just Vent...
“I know you can’t solve my problem Gina, but just listening to me really helps.” My friend was facing a difficult situation, and she said...
Apr 22, 2020
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